Still a chicken...
I still have that phone number glaring in my face and no balls to do anything about it. Gees, I am so passive that I can't stand it yet I do nothing to change it. I don't know what I'm afraid of. I want to call so badly! I wouldn't know what to say. How do you call someone who might be messin with your man (whether she knows it or not) and not sound like a complete nutjob? Do you demand to know who is on the other side of the phone? Do you politely ask for the name on the paper or the name from switchboard.com? What if they are one and the same because of an illegal status? (The cousin is from Peru.) I'm gonna go check out Myspace. See if I can find the name there or at classmates.com. Anything about right now would help. Back soon.
Edit: Okay. Nothing. In the unlikely event that someone is reading this and has an idea how to search for people (for free!) or an idea to make the call without looking like a total ass, let me know. I'm open for suggestions. Thanks!
Edit: Okay. Nothing. In the unlikely event that someone is reading this and has an idea how to search for people (for free!) or an idea to make the call without looking like a total ass, let me know. I'm open for suggestions. Thanks!
posted by Jen @ 5/18/2006 01:01:00 PM
1 Comments:
At 10:11 AM ,
TRUTHZ said...
well it seems like i came back just in time..
zabbasearch to your first and to the second...what is it going to change?
(i still have to read everything i have missed but, i will ask you this question now...)
are you going to leave him?
is it going to make you feel better?
is it going to give you closure?
is it going to change your life for the better? or just give you something else to be worried about?
you can call her and say hi, may i speak to " fill in name" and if they say wrong number, say can you tell me if someone by the name of "fill in other name" lives here. if they say no, then hang up..if they say yes, ask to speak to them. when speaking to them, introduce yourself to them, (be nice, like you would speaking to your girlfriend) tell them you are at a point in your life where you are tired of being lied to and really want an out to a situation that you feel may not be good for you....and that you were wondering if they were your out... ask then point blank if they are dealing w/ ur guy...if they say yes...say thank you. you have really made my day. have a great day, and tell them to expect company later on that night
then put him out...that's all i got for now
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